Names of Allah for Kids: Al Wahid, Al Ahad

Al Wahid, Al Ahad

When you read stories of Allah’s prophets and messengers in the Quran, you find that there is one common message they were all teaching their people, that there is only ONE God to be worshipped, and that is Allah. It is no different with our prophet Mohamed (PBUH). The first thing he taught people who believed him was that there is no God but Allah. 

This message is the base upon which Islam is built. We worship Allah, and no one but Allah. If we take a look at the names of Allah we will find not one, but two names that show us this crucial pillar of Islam and Iman (faith).

The first is: Al Wahid - The One. 

Despite its seemingly simple meaning, and that we use the word “the one” in other contexts; when Allah calls Himself the one, it means He is the only one. There is no one but Him. 

Allah has no sons, no daughters, no siblings, no parents, no partners, and no rivals. Allah is the source of all creation, He is the only one who can create things out of nothing, human beings of mud, and everything in the universe returns back to Him in the end.

The second is: Al Ahad: The Unique, The Only One.

This name is only used for Allah, there is no other use for it, as the name itself is unique to Him. Translation does not do it justice, however, so let’s take a deeper look into its meaning.

When we talked about Al Wahid, we said there is no one but Allah, in his essence, in His existence. Al Ahad, on the other hand, means there is no one like Allah, in his attributes, in his qualities. 

If you take a quick look at the 99 names of Allah, you will notice that they all describe Allah, tell us what He is like. The fact that they all have “Al” before them, shows us that He is the source of these qualities. 

Yes, Allah gives us human beings some of His attributes to live by, but no one comes near to having as many qualities as He does, or as much of one quality as He has.

For example: He is Al Kareem (The Most Generous). You will find many people who are generous, but are they as Generous as Allah? Not even close, we only try to be as generous as we can. 

So to sum it up;

Al Wahid: The Only One, there is no one but Him.

Al Ahad: The Only One, there is no one like Him.

How can we live by those two names? 

Al Wahid: 

• Remind yourself to only ask Allah for anything you want. Make duaa (pray) only for Allah when you need anything, from the simplest smallest request to the most important one. 

• Whenever you’re in trouble, seek help first and foremost from Allah, He will guide you towards how to fix your problem, even if through help from another person. 

• Don’t be afraid of anyone but Allah. No teacher, parent, coach or even friend should get as much respect, fear or even love from you as Allah.

• When something/someone becomes way too important for you that you feel lost without; remind yourself that only Allah is worthy of this kind of “worship”, and try to let go of your holding onto this thing/that person.

Al Ahad: 

• Study the different qualities of God through his names, and write them down in a place you can see. Pick a new name every week or two, and try to reflect this name in everything you do. For example, “This week I will be more merciful with everyone I deal with, and every animal and every plant I come across”. 

• Be more forgiving of people who are not as merciful, as generous, or as appreciative as you would like them to be. Nobody is perfect but Allah, nobody has all the good qualities, and nobody shows their best qualities all the time. Accept people’s imperfections and love them the way they are.

Five Ideas for Fun Ramadan Activities for kids!

It's the first day of Rmadan!

Elhamdulilah that Allah has given us this great opportunity for doing good and getting multiplied thawab for it.

Here are some ideas for Ramadan activities that you can do as a family!

1. Quran and Ramadan Did You Knows!

It’s important to let your children know the importance of the Quran and the relationship it shares with the Quran:

Did you know:

-       The Quran descended from Allah to the Prophet Muhammad SAWS during the month of Ramadan

-       The order/prescription of Fasting Ramadan came from the Quran (Surah al-Baqarah: 183-185)

-       There is an entire surah dedicated to the MOST important night in Ramadan – which is it? Surat Al Qadr.

-       The Angel Gibrael used to revise the Quran with Prophet Muhammad SAWS every Ramadan as per the hadeeth:

Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, would review the Quran once every year in Ramadan and he reviewed it twice in the year he passed away. The Prophet would seek spiritual retreat in the mosque for ten days every year and he secluded himself for twenty days in the year he passed away. Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 4712

2. Make a Thikr chart

Outline 3 to 5 thikrs (or more if you can) for the children to repeat every day at a regular time – consistency is key. Teach kids to work smarter with thikr. Read this post here: 

 http://themuslimchild.blogspot.com/search/label/Thikr

3. Make a good manners reward scheme

As fasting is not only abstaining from food and water, but it is also ensuring that our tongues fast from bad words and that our actions are good and pure. Create a reward chart where points can be gained – points translate in to rewards and that can each family can determine its own rewards.

Manners to add to your chart:

-       Being honest

-       Being generous or kind to siblings

-       Complete a chore or job without being asked

-       Give a compliment to someone

-       Reminding the family to pray

4. Make a gratitude collage

I love this one! If you're feeling crafty, make a gratitude collage with your children. Grab some crayons, paper, glue, photos and magazine cut outs and have your children arrange items on a piece of paper. Talk about what items they chose and why they are grateful for them.

Another fun idea is to give your children a camera and have them take photos of everything they are thankful for. You can post the images in an online photo album or even create a gratitude photo book using their shots!

5. Make a charity box reminder!

Following on from the gratitude activity, getting children to understand that charity is so important and how it is even more important in Ramadan is ideal. Making a charity box with the children where you put 10 to 20 (or 30 if you’re brave) charity ideas and make sure you pick one and do it every day of Ramadan. Some charity ideas:

-       Feed people in Ramadan

-       Donate clothes

-       Smile to everyone you see

-       Sponsor a child or donate to an orphanage

-       Charity through water

-       Do something for an elderly person/neighbor

-       Partake in building a mosque

-       Teach a friend or family member younger than you something about Islam

Let me know what other great ideas do you do as a family in Ramadan!

Is it too late to learn the Quran? This 73 year old woman has just done it!

I saw this beautiful post on facebook of a lovely woman who is 73 years old and has just finished learning the Quran. Her story really moved me and I wanted to share her journey. She describes her learning journey and persistence and one thing that struck me was that she would repeat an Ayah from 100 to 150 times to memorize it!

She says: When outside I would have my small Quran with me to memorize. It never left me.

You can read her full story here:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10157303503252894&id=686077893

May we never leave the Quran and always read it, understand it and teach it.

Seerah for Kids: Lesson 6. The Prophet's First Jobs!

So today we will learn about Prophet Mohamed's first jobs. The prophet took his first job when he was only 10!

Think about what you can do to help your family, even if it is simple chores!

THE PROPHET HERDS SHEEP

Prophet Mohammad SAWS was now ten years old.

During this time, he told his uncle, Abu Talib, whose custody he was under, that he wanted to herd his sheep. This was because Prophet Mohamad saw that Abu Talib was struggling to make enough money to feed them all and he really wanted to help. At first, his uncle, who loved him wholeheartedly, did not consent. However, he eventually accepted due to Prophet’s (PBUH) persistence. 

Our Holy Prophet (PBUH) began to take the sheep and goats to the valleys and hills where they would graze during the morning.

In this way, he was able to help his uncle, even if it was in a very small way, to save money since it was no longer necessary to hire a shepherd.

The Prophet SAWS was now working very hard, taking the sheep out to the countryside. Being a shepherd and spending time in the countryside helped the prophet spend time in nature and get a chance to deeply contemplate on the existence of the ground and skies.
In the fields, he would watch the fields and think of Allah's creation. At the same time, being busy with work kept him away from all the bad things that were happening in the city of Makkah.

Later on the prophet SAWS would tell the sahabah that “There is no prophet who has not herded sheep.” 

One day, the Prophet SAWS told his companions

“Prophet Moses (AS) was sent as a prophet; he herded sheep. Prophet David (AS) was sent as a prophet; he herded sheep. I too was sent as a prophet and would herd my family’s sheep in Jiyad (a place that is at the bottom part of Mecca).” 

Why do you think that Prophet Mohamad SAWS and all the other prophets were responsible for herding sheep?
One of the reasons is that being out in the open countryside teaches people to think deeply and do tafakur, which is to think about Allah's creation and to try and understand the greatness of Allah.


Some activities that you could do after this lesson:

1. Watch this video about sheep! Why not learn some fun facts about them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK3KsFd2YnQ

2. Print out some sheep facts for your book and learn about them!

https://www.pinterest.com/cassie_osborne/farm-theme-activities-for-kids/

3. Learn about Tafakur.
I will post some ideas about how to start kids on tafakur but for now why not take one of Allah's creation and really think about it deeply!

4. Do some chores to help your family!
Look at how the Prophet SAWS was trying to be helpful to his uncle and family. Think of how you can help at home. What kind of chores can you contribute with.

Why don't you print out this chore chart and set yourself some tasks at home!
http://templatelab.com/chore-charts/#Chore_Chart_Templates 

Work Smarter Not Harder!

We've all heard it before, people saying you need to work smarter not harder. What they are really saying is that you should use your time wisely and more effectively. Sometimes you can do something in 5 minutes that may be worth hours of work.

What if I told you that Prophet Muhammed SAWS explained this very concept to Juwairiyah bint Al Harith, one of the mothers of the believers and taught her that she could earn a lot more hasanat by doing a lot less! Basically working smarter not harder!

This is what we discussed with the girls yesterday. Some people are smart about their ibada. We all live extremely hectic and busy lives and sometimes even when do have the time we're too tired to do much. This is why this thikr which we learned is amazing! You get so many hasanat and it doesn't take much time at all!

Juwairiyah bint Al-Harith (May Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, reported:

The Prophet (ﷺ) came out from my apartment in the morning as I was busy in performing the dawn prayer. He came back in the forenoon and found me sitting there. The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Are you still in the same position as I left you." I replied that yes, I was. Thereupon the Prophet said, "I recited four words three times after I had left you. If these are to be weighed against all you have recited since morning, these will be heavier. 

These are: Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, `adada khalqihi, wa rida nafsihi, wa zinatah `arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi 

[Allah is free from imperfection and I begin with His praise, as many times as the number of His creatures, in accordance with His Good Pleasure, equal to the weight of His Throne and equal to the ink that may be used in recording the words (for His Praise)]."

Ramadan! How will you get your kids excited?!

Ramadan is almost a week away, and we are feeling very excited!

How have you prepared for it at home and are your kids helping around in decorating the house and preparing their duaa lists?

I have exciting news for you! This Ramadan, we will follow 'Ameena's Ramadan Diary' A practical guide to getting the best out of fasting and Ramadan. We look at the different tips and advice that will help us get the most out of Ramadan InshAllah!

In the 'How to use this book' section, the author actually recommends that you start well before Ramadan (6 weeks before actually!) to help you prepare yourself spiritually and get into the right mindset. We only have a few days but better late than never, right!

So what are some things that the authors recommend you do to get prepared:

1. Start by writing all the positive things that went well for you last ramadan and also the areas that you could have improved on.
Remember that knowing your strengths and weaknesses is half the battle!

2. Based on point 1, set some ambitious but also achievable goals for yourself. How many times do you want to read the whole Quran? How much will you try and do dawa and involve family and friends?

3. Don't forget to keep saying:
اَللّهُمَّ بَلِّغْنَا رَمَضَان Allahumma Ballighna Ramadan Oh Allah, let us reach the month of Ramadaan

So what goals have you set for yourself and have your kids set for themselves? Please post in the comments below, you could be helping to inspire other people.

Duaa for others

I was reading a book for a course the other day called, ‘For the Good of the Earth and Sun’ by Georgia Heard, and on the first pages as all authors do, she acknowledges her thanks to all the people who helped her.
What struck me though was the way she did it, and it got me thinking about how I don’t do that enough! What is it that she does?

She says that every night as a child before going to bed, she would kneel down and in her prayers, she ‘made sure not to leave anyone out, so no one’s feelings would be hurt.’

I was deeply moved by her feelings and her love for others. I thought to myself, she does this out of love...but what about us? What about Muslims who know of the hadith of the Prophet Mohammed SAWS which says:

In Saheeh Muslim and Sunan Ibn Majah, it is narrated that the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said, 'The Dua of a person for his Muslim brother in his absence will be answered. At his head there is an angel, and every time he prays for him for something good, the angel who has been appointed to be with him, says, 'Ameen, may you have likewise.' (62)

By praying for others, we learn to empathise with them, grow our love for them, and always have them in our minds AND we also get rewarded by being granted the ijaba of duaa for ourselves and them.

A friend once told me that she splits her Rakaas by who she does duaa for. Her first Rakaa is for herself (it is Sunnah to start with yourself in duaa), the second Rakaa is for her parents, the third for her husband and children and so on..

Now that is something I have to remind myself everytime I do duaa: to remember as many other people as I can. Now don't forget me in your duaas too :)