We’ve been working on integrating Salah gradually in our
daily routine. As A is almost 6, it is very important for me to ensure that she
is not only familiar with the athkar and actions of the prayers but also that
she is trained to consistently do her prayers.
I found this method for training her to become regular in
her prayers from the book The Child in Islam by Norma Tarazi, to be
extremely useful. I have quoted the passage here:
A simple workable method for initiating salat with a
young child is the following. On his fifth birthday, ask him to begin regular
prayer with the family once a day. This should be treated as a special event, a
significant landmark on his road to growing up. The most suitable prayer to
begin with is generally maghrib, when the whole family is at home and can pray
together. Then, when the child reaches five and a half, initiate the second
salah, any one out of the five you choose. On the sixth birthday, the third
salah is added; at six and a half, the fourth; and by the seventh birthday, he
has all five prayers regularized.
As suggested, we have started doing Maghrib prayer together. However, please note that with any child who has not reached the age of seven, it must be entirely the child's choice. Some sheikhs have even suggested that if the child is ordered to pray before seven the may be entirely put off. Therefore if the child is eager and willing and wants to pray, encourage them, otherwise its best to leave it till they are seven.
I have started our formal prayer studies. Here is
the list of the resources that I will be using InshAllah.
Resources:
Here are the prayer topics that I want to focus on
initially:
What is prayer?
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Why do we Pray
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The Story of the Israa and Miraj
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The Qiblah: Facing the Kaaba
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Wudoo
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Knows that wudhu is necessary before one can pray
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Knows the steps of wudhu and can perform them
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Knows what breaks ones wudhu
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Knows that excessive water should not be used to make wudhu
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Knows the duaa to say after wudhu is made
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The Sutrah
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Things that Break the Prayer
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Takbeer
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Opening Duaa
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Rukoo
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Sujood
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Between the Sajdahs
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Straightening from Rukoo
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The Tashahhud
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Salaat Upon the Prophet(salla Allahu alayhi wa sallam
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Seeking Refuge from 4
Things
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Supplication before Tasleem
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Tasleem
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After Prayer Thikr
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What is a Rakaah?
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Positions of the Salaat
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The Five Prayers
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Salatul Fajr
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Salatul Dhuhr
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Salatul Asr
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Salatul Maghrib
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Salatul Ishaa
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